Bronner: A Journey to Understand
Sherri Burgess
New Hope Publishers
Released January 2016
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I had to catch my breath before I could write a review of
this wonderful book. I've read several works written by grieving parents over
the years. My own family experienced two such losses and so I read these books
from time to time to see how others process so terrible an event as a child
passing. This, however, is no ordinary "grieving parent" book.
I have read books that obsessed for endless chapters about
Heaven, in an effort by the author to draw comfort from the fact that their
child now resides there.
I have read books that were on the verge of dabbling in the
occult with their repeated claims of signs and sightings and "God
nods" that somehow signified that their lost loved one was literally
making their presence known on this plane.
But until reading this book, I had not read someone who
rushed headlong into the awesome and terrifying truth that this is a fallen
world, and the God whom we love and confess, the God whom we trust and obey, is
the same God who can permit something so tragic because it is part of His
greater plan. Harder still is facing that truth and somehow believing that He
is no less good and loving that He was before the tragedy struck.
Sherri Burgess has done a masterful job of expressing the
immense pain that she and husband Rick and their family experienced that
dreadful January night. But beyond that, Sherri has dug deep into the
scriptures to offer the hope and comfort that only those who truly trust God
will know. When Paul speaks of the "Peace that passes
understanding..." he is not referring to some mystical numbness that
overtakes your devastated and shattered heart. He is talking about the deep,
under-the-surface peace that comes from knowing somewhere in your soul that
even this is somehow part of God's plan. The Burgesses lived it. They still
live it. This is a story about the home-going of a precious child, but also of the
dreams, plans, visions and hopes that are always wrapped up in our children.
It's about arms that ache for a hug that doesn't come, ears that listen for a
voice that has fallen silent, and a special place in the heart of a mom and dad
that is for now filled only with memories and yearning. Thankfully it's also
about the truth that those disappointments and sorrows are not eternal.
Sherri and Rick's story is breathtaking in it's pain and
also in it's strength. Yes, God has granted them the peace that passes
understanding, but He also granted them the Faith to say "It is well with
my soul" even when the world is crumbling.
Beyond all this. Beyond the masterful way Sherri relates
this story and recounts every painful step on the trail of tears and healing,
there lies the fact that she is a masterful theologian. I have a Bachelors
degree in Religion and I am beginning seminary this spring, I love the Word and
have a deep respect for those who truly know how to "Rightly divide the
Word of Truth." Sherri is amazing in her depth and breadth of biblical
knowledge. One of the reasons I shy away from these books is because so
frequently they contain so much terrible theology. This book is the opposite.
This book is truth. It's not just for those who have experienced loss -because
in the end, who hasn't- it's for those who know that life IS loss...but to be
with Christ, both here on earth and in eternity, is truly gain.
Thank you Sherri and Rick for having the courage to walk
back down that dreadful path and share this story with us all.
If you struggle with loss -whether of a child or a parent or sibling, or simply the loss of your plans and dreams- I cannot recommend this book highly enough.
Craig